Do you have many self limiting beliefs?


” When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” ~ Dr Wayne Dyer


What we believe in limits or expands our world. These beliefs shape our thoughts and actions because we treat them as though they are a true and objective representation of the facts.


Beliefs can influence whether or not you attempt to achieve a particular goal in life. They determine what you pay attention to, how you react to difficult situations and ultimately your attitude.

Success and failure begin and end in what the mind believes is possible.


So how can you change a limiting belief?

The main keys to doing this is complete honesty and challenging yourself. Here are a few steps to help kick start the process:


  • Identify the thought or belief
  • How does this thought/belief make you feel?
  • Is thought/belief 100% true?
  • What would be a more honest thought/belief that also reflects your values?
  • What can you do that reflects your new thought/belief?


Adopting a positive mental attitude will also help:

  • Use positive self talk – up to 1500 words a minutes flow through our minds, how many of them are positive? Positive talk will lead to increased confidence and higher self esteem.
  • Control the pictures in your mind. People use mental pictures to represent places, events, dreams and goals. If you create positive pictures your actions will be positive.
  • Feed your mind a healthy diet. seek out positive information, and limit the negative.
  • Associate with positive people. levels of success achieved can be linked to the people you associate with.
  • Be proactive. Don’t wait for something to happen, take control and seize the initiative!


How many of the above do you already practise?


“Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement… no pessimist ever discovered the secret of the stars, or sailed to an uncharted land, or opened a new doorway for the human spirit.” Helen Keller

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One Response to Do you have many self limiting beliefs?

  1. Michael, I absolutely love this article! I totally agree and I use these techniques too. I think that positive self-talk is my #1 tool in my tool box. I use “affirmations” that I write, as well as simply think positive thoughts. I practice ahead positive conversation of difficult situations as well.
    Limiting Beliefs can become “Empowering Beliefs” if we want them to be. Sometimes we need help and that is what a life coach is for. 🙂 Also, I love the quotes you picked.

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